{"id":1095,"date":"2019-07-28T12:18:39","date_gmt":"2019-07-28T19:18:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sylvainefrancine.com\/?p=1095"},"modified":"2019-07-28T12:18:39","modified_gmt":"2019-07-28T19:18:39","slug":"the-powerful-effects-of-letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sylvainefrancine.com\/fr\/the-powerful-effects-of-letting-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Les puissants effets du l\u00e2cher prise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>CHUT\u2026 Elle m\u00e9dite\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Un jour, alors que mes enfants avaient respectivement onze et trois ans, j&#039;ai ressenti le puissant effet du l\u00e2cher-prise. Tout le monde en a b\u00e9n\u00e9fici\u00e9. Mon a\u00een\u00e9 a \u00e9t\u00e9 surpris, car ce jour-l\u00e0, il me mettait \u00e0 rude \u00e9preuve. Pas seulement une ou deux fois. Dans son assiduit\u00e9, il les a tous mis \u00e0 rude \u00e9preuve. Vous savez, une de ces journ\u00e9es \u00e9prouvantes.<\/p>\n<p>Devant l&#039;\u00e9vier de la cuisine, je lavais les l\u00e9gumes du jardin et je sentais la col\u00e8re monter. Pourquoi cet enfant n&#039;accepte-t-il pas un \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb comme r\u00e9ponse\u00a0? Pourquoi ne comprend-il pas que d&#039;autres sont impliqu\u00e9s et que \u00ab\u00a0non\u00a0\u00bb sera toujours la r\u00e9ponse\u00a0? <em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Plus il poussait, plus je prenais conscience d&#039;une pouss\u00e9e dans ma poitrine. C&#039;\u00e9tait subtil, mais r\u00e9el. Cette expansion a d\u00e9clench\u00e9 une pens\u00e9e.\u00a0<em>L\u00e2che prise. Respire.\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\nJ&#039;ai fait un effort conscient pour pr\u00eater attention \u00e0 ce qui se passait. J&#039;ai concentr\u00e9 mon attention sur l&#039;expansion. Et j&#039;ai respir\u00e9 \u00e0 travers elle.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 ce moment pr\u00e9cis, j&#039;ai senti une \u00e9nergie s&#039;\u00e9chapper de ma bouche. Aussi subtile et r\u00e9elle que la fum\u00e9e de cigarette. La col\u00e8re s&#039;\u00e9tait accumul\u00e9e dans ma poitrine et s&#039;\u00e9tait exhal\u00e9e par ma bouche.<br \/>\nJe me suis retourn\u00e9 et je lui ai dit : \u00ab Il faut \u00eatre deux pour se battre. Je ne le ferai pas. \u00bb<br \/>\nL&#039;expression de surprise sur son visage \u00e9tait celle d&#039;un million de dollars.<\/p>\n<p>Je me suis s\u00e9ch\u00e9 les mains, je suis entr\u00e9 dans ma salle de m\u00e9ditation et j&#039;ai ferm\u00e9 la porte en silence.<br \/>\nQuelques minutes plus tard, mon plus jeune courait dans la maison et son fr\u00e8re a dit : \u00ab Chuuut\u2026 Maman m\u00e9dite. Lisons un livre. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Le r\u00e9sultat n\u2019aurait pas \u00e9t\u00e9 le m\u00eame si je m\u2019\u00e9tais concentr\u00e9e sur mon fils et son comportement aga\u00e7ant.<br \/>\nEn dirigeant mon attention sur cette sensation avec le d\u00e9sir de l&#039;observer plut\u00f4t que de l&#039;utiliser, un espace s&#039;est cr\u00e9\u00e9 et elle s&#039;est lib\u00e9r\u00e9e. Quelle diff\u00e9rence\u00a0!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; SHHH\u2026. She is meditating\u2026 One day, when my children were respectively eleven and three, I experienced the powerful effect of letting go. Everyone benefited from it. It came as a surprise to my oldest who on this specific day was pushing my buttons. Not just once or twice. 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